Some days, I wake up a little slow and weak but with coffee and a little time, pain starts to decrease and I start to feel a little energy. It's exciting to think I may be able to accomplish even simple tasks like making breakfast and doing dishes or laundry. Defeat: prevent (someone) from achieving…

The Forgotten

It is not uncommon for chronically sick people to feel forgotten. People who are not sick go about living life and while their intentions to check in on the sick are good, life has a way of moving the healthy forward while the sick often get left behind and forgotten. Sometimes it can even seem…

Truth VS Positivity

I recently wrote about Optimistic Realism, being hopeful for good things but honest with yourself about the challenges that currently exist. Being optimistic and having a positive attitude are not the same thing. They can work together, but they are inherently different. Optimism looks to the future for a positive outcome. A positive attitude gives…

Take Captive Every Thought

Someday, I’m gonna wake up without pain, without nausea, without fatigue. My head won’t hurt, my feet won’t burn, my skin won’t crawl. These are the thoughts I have to have to keep hope. Someday. It often feels like someday may never come. Sometimes it’s hard to remember what feeling well feels like - making…

Fear Is A Liar

We all start out thinking this is temporary. We believe some doctor or potion will eventually get us back to the state of normalcy to which we have become accustomed. So when does that change? At what point during sickness do we shift to the mindset that it may not happen. And what causes that…

Thankful Grateful Fed

Saying grace before meals is a common practice among most Christians. There are a lot of reasons we do this - glorifying God by acknowledging his gift of provision is usually the big one. But did you know God has a more individual, physical reason for saying grace? That’s right - you heard me -…

Fly-Over States

We just crossed the border from Oklahoma to Kansas on our last leg of a 4 day journey to Wichita.  This has been a rough trip, but I’ve been better than I expected and we have totally enjoyed the ever changing landscape and weather.  If you have never taken the highway 40 / Route 66…

In our weakness, He is strong

I am laying here in bed, having completed 2 IV treatments this morning, feeling sick to my stomach and weak as can be.  Recent events have caused a burden of stress that is wreaking havoc on my system.  I’ve been in bed for 3 weeks.  Exhausted from the pain that cripples me day and night. …

Nausea & Acupressure Points

As part of my illness, I am frequently nauseated. And occasionally, that nausea becomes severe and I will vomit. My husband, desperate to help me when this happens, researched tools to that could offer relief. He found that there are several pressure point in the body that connect to the stomach and can relieve nausea.…