The Best Things Happen By Chance

My least favorite interview questions are the ones about plans. "What’s your 5 year plan?" "Where do you see yourself in 10 years?" Good grief - I don’t know where I’m gonna be at the end of the day! Don't get me wrong - it makes sense that we should plan for the future, to…

The Measure of a Hero

"Everyone fails at who they’re supposed to be. The measure of a person, a hero, is how well they succeed at who they are.” ~ Frigga (Thor’s mother) Avengers End Game I have an image of who I am supposed to be. It’s largely based on who I used to be, what I used to…

Work the Problem

In the movie “The Martian”, astronaut/botanist Mark Watney is left behind by his crew who think he died in a freak storm accident. In his efforts to get home alive, he has to solve problem after problem: Contact NASA Ration food Grow food Make water Leave Mars Intercept with crew Slow down Speed up Etc…

Death By Bad Conversation

In the Netflix television show The Crown, Queen Elizabeth’s Grandmother is ill and expected to die. The Queen goes to visit her and Queen Mary (the grandmother) says “I’m always happy to see you, and my mood will improve further if you promise me....not to ask me how I am. It’s all anyone ever does…

Fear Is A Liar

We all start out thinking this is temporary. We believe some doctor or potion will eventually get us back to the state of normalcy to which we have become accustomed. So when does that change? At what point during sickness do we shift to the mindset that it may not happen. And what causes that…

New Amsterdam

The most recent episode of New Amsterdam had a patient in the ER with headaches. The doctor spent hours with this woman and finally diagnosed her with Lyme disease.  The head of the ER was upset the doctor spent so much time with one patient - she told him there are over 300,000 cases a…

Terrible, Horrible, No-Good Very Bad Days

The other night, my family and I watched the movie "Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No-good, Very Bad Day".  It's a story of a boy who can't seem to catch a break.  Everything he does, everywhere he goes, things just don't turn out for the good.   His family on the other hand, seem to…

Discouragement

Discourage:  to deprive of courage, hope, or confidence; dishearten; dispirit. Most days, I have great hope.  I don't have unreachable expectations that I will get well overnight. I don't even have expectations that I will be completely healed one day.  But I do have hope that I will continue to heal and improve.   Then…